The Law Office of Toby Grabelle, LLC is honored to serve the people of New Jersey regarding family law. Ms. Grabelle handles all family law matters, including divorce, property distribution, spousal support, child support, child custody, and more. With over 35 years of experience, Attorney Grabelle has forged many relationships with clients who believe that she was a wonderful choice for their family law matter. Please find below some of Attorney Grabelle’s many testimonials and links to other review sites. If you are a client of ours, please take a minute to write a short review about your experience with our law firm. If you need quality legal services from Attorney Grabelle, please contact The Law Office of Toby Grabelle, LLC for a consultation.


Some of our testimonials

Toby and her staff are very professional, but most of all they put me at ease during such an emotional and financial situation. They keep me from hurting myself financially and I have the utmost confidence in their recommendations and advice. I would highly recommend Toby and her staff to anyone that is to go through a divorce.

– Bill

I retained the Law Firm of Toby Grabelle approximately 3 years ago. My case was very difficult due to my being self-employed. Also, the unrealistic expectations of my ex-wife created many challenges for the firm. I was very concerned that I would bear an overwhelming financial obligation if all of my ex-wife’s demands were met. My ex-wife also changed attorneys many times, which created delays. Because of the experience, professionalism, compassion and understanding of Toby and her team, my case closed beyond my expectations in my favor. Toby and her paralegal, Rosemary, always made me feel confident in their handling of my case. I have recommended Toby Grabelle to people who were searching for superior legal representation and will continue to recommend The Law Firm of Toby Grabelle, LLC.

-William W.

Ms. Grabelle was fabulous while representing me during an acrimonious and arduous divorce action. She prevailed in every motion and negotiated a settlement that far exceeded my expectations (and dramatically better terms than what I was offering before retaining her as legal counsel). Her support staff is extremely efficient and professional. Always prepared with a strategy and never intimidated or rattled by the opposition, they confidently navigated with me throughout the divorce proceedings. Ms. Grabelle’s legal team consistently operated always several steps ahead of and tremendously more intelligently than opposing counsel. From a financial and cost standpoint, Her firm was very reasonable and transparent throughout the entire process. Upon settlement, the opposing counsel presented their client with an invoice almost triple the cost that I incurred. Incidentally, although I was the sole wage earner, I did not have to pay a dime of ex-spouses legal fees as part of the settlement negotiated by Ms.Grabelle. Her tough stance and mastery of matrimonial law was instrumental in expediting a very complicated situation into an acceptable settlement.

-John W.

“Smart and Compassionate”

Attorney Toby Grabelle represented me in a complicated, difficult and very very long divorce proceeding. She was extremely smart and compassionate. Her and her wonderful staff were always there to answer questions and provide much needed emotional support. Highly recommended.

-Laura S. 

Going through my divorce was such an emotional and stressful time for me and my family. With Toby and Rosemary at my side every step of the way, I knew I was not only getting the best legal representation around, but also a team who really cared about what was best for me and my children.  They gave me not just the legal knowledge I so needed to get through my divorce, but the strength and courage to advocate for what I deserved. I will be forever grateful!

-Molly J.


After my initial consultation with Toby Grabelle and her paralegal Rosemary Ryan, I knew I was in the right place.  Toby and her staff provided me with a strong sense of professionalism and compassion.  Divorce can difficult for all involved, but they helped keep the process simple and on track from beginning to end.  Most importantly, Toby and Rosemary helped me keep a clear head throughout the process and focused on what was most important.  Words cannot express my gratitude toward Toby and Rosemary for helping restore a life of peace and happiness for my daughter and me.  I would highly recommend Toby and her fine staff to anyone seeking a divorce attorney with the highest level of personal and professional integrity.